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throwing yourself out there

November 5, 2019 by allan

all the wonders you seek are within yourself

– Sir thomas browne

Depending on how long you’ve known me, you probably know me as the most outgoing / extroverted person you’ve ever met. If you have ever done the myers-briggs personality test, I always land on ENFJ.

Extroverted;
adjective
1. outgoing and socially confident.

Anytime my friends and I go out, I’m always expected to be the person who bridges the gap between strangers.

Dontcha wish you were like me? Sometimes I feel like it’s a curse and sometimes a blessing in disguise.

Remember when shoot your shot was my motto? I learned so much about rejection since then.

The way I look at it, everyone is afraid to talk to you. You just have to get over the initial fear and start the conversation. Looking at all of my friendships, there is one thing they all have in common—someone started the first engagement.

You never know who you’re going to meet by throwing yourself out there. The best times I’ve ever had have always been done on a whim. We’re only on earth for a short time so make the most of it!


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